No one is bothered by confidence and authenticity more than insecure and fake people.

Awhile back some coworkers were calling the new guy a narcissist. Then someone sent me a video on "what makes them tick" so, sometimes YT recommends more of those, and I realized something..

These "anti-narcissist" channels are actually narcissists themselves, by their own definitions.

Some of them even have videos that are 20 minutes long like "how to drive a narcissist crazy" ..which in itself, is a sign of Borderline Personality Disorder.

That's the #1 sign of what they would call a "covert" narcissist, and the evidence for that is in how they're turning it into a competition. It's the same behavior they claim they don't like, in reverse.

Basically a "confident regular narcissist" against a "insecure covert narcissist", and yeah he had some issues, but BOTH of you are blubbering wet farts just making noise. Stinking up the place.

I know most people don't understand the difference between confidence and narcissism either, so that doesn't help.

But that kind of thinking reminds me of all those corny ass "how to pick up chicks / gain respect" guides.. it's the same brand of just horrible advice that comes off as a joke at the reader's expense.

Anyway, normal people work to STOP negative experience loops, not go out of their way to "battle them" with an equal spat of mental derangement as ammo. I mean "psyche hack" punch yourself in the face while you're at it.

Here's my question though.. I don't care if people brag to me, I'm happy for them.. why aren't you? And just who TF are you to "teach them a lesson" in the first place? Who do you think you are to try and change someone else's behavior? And why, because it bothers you? What kind of a weak B are you?!

You should ask yourself these questions, but look.. if you don't like them and they don't like you, just stay away from each other. Recognize and understand these differences..

- Narcissism: requires other people's participation.

- Confidence: opens a door and throws you out of it.