Long story short, my Mom may have lost everything she owns in a Facebook scam.

[after explaining how bad this was and why and that it's already too late - they have everything and you won't know until later] "This is insane! Oh my god .. Mom, I can't help you any more. Everything I do for you, you screw it up the next day somehow for no reason. 4 phones and phone plans, 3 credit cards later, 3 streaming devices, 5 facebook accounts, and now you just invited a total stranger from facebook into your house to leave with paper work that I don't even know where you got from, to literally everything you own! In each and every case you have everything set and then suddenly, every time, you do something that makes absolutely no sense, and I'm not going to keep participating in it."

My mom: "I'll just sell every thing! Thanks for nothing!" .. I did EVERYTHING. ALL she had to do is make a phone call. A $10 appointment! She had over a YEAR of me reminding her to do it, and instead, "complained on facebook" she says and asked a total stranger to "handle it for her" .. handle what?!

I'm fucking blown away.

Never once in my adult life have I asked either of my parents for anything, and now I think it's time for that 1 way road to stop, because I'm not going to be dragged down with that ship of total insanity. And get blamed for it on top of it all.

Em_A: I took my moms Facebook away, she got scammed also and lost thousands of dollars. Ridiculous

Vic_K: That's all fucking terrible.

You're a really good person, and it's 100000% okay to set boundaries. You are not responsible for the actions of others. This is not on you.

I'm sorry she's going through this, and I'm sorry you're going through this.

- Me: She was like this when I was a kid. Stayed away from her for like 10 years because of it, but thought she changed. She hasn't.

Update: she just sent 50 text messages saying she's going to take me to court (for post about her) and then kept repeating "leave me alone" as if I'm contacting her.

Have all receipts. She may end up in a looney bin or in jail for false statements using the court, whatever that's called.

Telling me "I won't get shit", but never once have I cared about anything I would gain from helping. Complained about me not doing more (not even possible) and now it's "none of your business you little asshole" but, she came to me.

- M_R: That's some fucked up shit man.
- Me: First my Dad steals $18K, then this. I tell ya man, I am fucking, angry.
- M_R: just move back to Minnesota

I find it amazing that I've never been on heroin, or meth, any drugs at all, never stolen anything or owed anyone money, just kept to myself my whole life, but when the tiniest peep comes out of me about all the fucked up shit going on around me, it's AMPLIFIED LIKE IM SATAN HIMSELF boy, I'm THE WORST.

You should THANK GOD i don't speak as easy as you do about NOTHING.

Jil_B: Oh man that is horrible. And I'm really sorry she's taking it all out on you. Seems like all youve done is try to help but it's never appreciated and never enough. My therapist used to tell me you can still love people and keep them at arms length so they can't grab onto you and hurt you. And sometimes you have to do that with the people you love the most because as much as you love them, they may not be capable of loving you the same way or the way that you need/deserve

Me: i was just thinking that. I didn't keep my distance, knowing what I knew.

Jil_B: it's hard when it's your mom. It's instinct to try to do everything you can for your family, especially parents.

Disturbing updates: I wasn't the only 1 "helping" with those documents. They were targetting me and 1 other (in contact with), trying to use us as human shields to commit document fraud. THAT's why multiple OTHER sets of documents popped up in the mix and why the legit docs were never finalized because they were afraid of getting caught. That's ALSO why they went with some rando from facebook! They were setting me up and using me! They wanted me to basically say "ok jeez let me do it for you" so I take the fall if anything happened.

I've had about 20 conversations, all night about this and what we found is even crazier than this. A lot that never made sense, does, more than it ever has my entire life.

Some people will hate you simply because you don't pay attention to how much they hate you. They will even BLAME you for not falling into the same traps of life as they have, and hold it against you to justify trying to destroy everything you are.

There was so much more going on with this I never even imagined.

More: also why she flipped out so bad about me posting this. Because others saw it and came forward with info. The threats, the insults .. all fear and guilt of crimes, and I was supposed to take the fall instead.

Jen_C: so sorry :(

L_R: this isn't fair to you and I'm here for you hun, block them all,just do what you have to do and please be careful bro, I know my brother is looking down on you and guiding you in right direction. I'm always here for you!!!

Update 3: they're trying to convince others I'm having a mental breakdown. If something happens, contact Bow or Aunt Kathy. Many people to back up what I'm saying as witness with evidence of their own.

- M_R: this is getting more interesting
- Me: lol dude, my head is pounding. Worst headache in years.
- Jen_C: please becareful my friend.
- Me: i think we have everything figured out now. Isn't much left that doesn't make sense any more. It's not good.
- M_R: I believe it man.

Me: A lot of confusion right now. They're trying really hard to make this all look like something else since it affects so many people, but I need to say this.. I never knew even a percent of what they've done over the years! The shit I've learned the past 2 days .. if I knew, I would have spoken up and seperated myself DECADES ago. I now understand all the weird vibes at family gatherings for example .. the mistrust, the anger, everything! And with me, they weren't sure if I was like them too. Well I'm not and never was.

I really don't want to start posting screenshots but I think these 2 are needed. Also, J and R have been sending texts trying to provoke me so that when I respond they can show people like I'm the bad guy but .. I don't think they understand how comfortable I am with showing entire conversations, even with me firing back. These were before I knew it wasn't stupidity.

They were afraid of exactly what wound up happening. People making sense of it all.